Planning a wedding is incredibly exciting — but it can feel overwhelming with so many decisions to make. The good news? A beautifully styled, memorable wedding doesn’t have to be complicated or crowded with details. With thoughtful choices, clever styling, and a clear vision, you can create a day that feels luxurious, personal, and unforgettable.

Here are my top tips for styling a wedding with impact and elegance.

1. Choose One Strong Style Direction

One of the biggest styling mistakes is trying to do everything at once. Instead, focus on a single aesthetic — romantic, modern, wintery, minimalist, or moody — and let that guide every decision. When your choices are cohesive, even simple details feel intentional and elevated.

2. Invest Where It Matters Most

Consider the areas where your guests’ eyes will naturally be drawn. Ceremony backdrops, the top table, or a key focal point in the room create the most impact. By prioritising these areas — through beautiful draping, statement candles, or florals — you can transform the space far more effectively than by spreading your attention thinly across every corner.

3. Use Candles for Instant Atmosphere

Candles are a styling secret that instantly add warmth, romance, and depth. A mix of pillar candles, tea lights, and hurricane vases elevates tables and venues, especially for evening weddings or winter celebrations. They also photograph beautifully, casting a soft, glowing light that feels effortlessly elegant.

4. Let Fabrics Do the Heavy Lifting

Draping is a transformative element in wedding styling. Soft fabrics can completely change the feel of a space, conceal less attractive features, and add movement and texture. Used behind the ceremony, framing a sweetheart table, or in subtle corners, fabric creates a luxurious, considered look. Choosing neutral or rich tones keeps the styling timeless and sophisticated.

5. Keep Table Styling Simple but Thoughtful

You don’t need elaborate centrepieces to create beautiful tables. Linen napkins, elegant glassware, simple florals, and candles go a long way. Repetition is key — keeping table designs consistent feels polished and intentional, whereas too many styles can feel disjointed. A well-styled table is never complicated, just carefully considered.

6. Hire Instead of Buying

For one-off items like candles, tableware, draping, or statement décor, hiring often provides the most practical and elegant solution. It allows you to achieve a high-end look without unnecessary purchases, reduces stress, and eliminates storage concerns after the day.

7. Trust a Stylist to Maximise Impact

A wedding stylist knows how to make every detail count. With access to curated hire pieces, styling expertise, and a creative eye, a stylist ensures your vision comes to life beautifully. Often, working with a stylist helps prioritise the details that have the greatest impact, leaving your day feeling intentional, cohesive, and effortlessly elegant.

Final Thoughts

A beautifully styled wedding doesn’t mean compromising on atmosphere or style. With intentional choices, clever styling, and a clear vision, your wedding can feel elegant, personal, and truly unforgettable. If you’re planning your wedding and want help creating a stunning look that reflects your personality and style, I’d love to help bring your vision to life.

Photography - Amy Elizabeth

Florals - Jess Austin

Draping - Tara Knott

Elegant Wedding Styling with Smart, Considered Choices